Until fairly recently despite her age (96) nans been doing well, the last 2 weeks have been a rapid decline, she's now confined to a wheelchair, incont, little to no speech, and hasn't been able to feed herself, in the last 24 hours though she's now refusing food and drink the point of pursing her lips shut, I didn't know if anyone else has had this experience or any ideas where I go from here, professionals haven't brought up the idea of a feeding tube, but the little research I've done on the subject doesn't look positive, any ideas welcome