I am more worried about the devastating effects on me. It feels like all the balls have fallen to the floor again and my mind is in turmoil. I am supposed to work on Monday and as a lot of you know I work from home and I can't possibly think of working from home with pee and pooh (if this happens) all over the place
I am devastated because the implications of each little thing are massive.Quote Helen
Dear Helen, I have just caught up with your thread and can see you are in a bad place again. I think you sound exhausted and this is why you have reacted so intensely to the incident which hopefully is a one off but even if it not, you have coped with worse things before. You say you are working on Monday, personally I think you may need some time out as you first planned. I am also wondering whether it is not now the time too look why you feel under so much pressure each time something new happens. Is it perhaps because working and caring at this level does not go too well hand in hand. I think you need to decide where you can ease off, can you leave out some work or do you need different arrangement or more assistance with Alan. It is not working for you at the moment is it? We need to be realistic knowing things get worse not better. I am sorry to be so blunt but you could soon make yourself ill and then you cannot work nor care. Take a deep breath stand still for a while and give it some serious thought please.
Big big hugs and warmest thoughts.Win
I am devastated because the implications of each little thing are massive.Quote Helen
Dear Helen, I have just caught up with your thread and can see you are in a bad place again. I think you sound exhausted and this is why you have reacted so intensely to the incident which hopefully is a one off but even if it not, you have coped with worse things before. You say you are working on Monday, personally I think you may need some time out as you first planned. I am also wondering whether it is not now the time too look why you feel under so much pressure each time something new happens. Is it perhaps because working and caring at this level does not go too well hand in hand. I think you need to decide where you can ease off, can you leave out some work or do you need different arrangement or more assistance with Alan. It is not working for you at the moment is it? We need to be realistic knowing things get worse not better. I am sorry to be so blunt but you could soon make yourself ill and then you cannot work nor care. Take a deep breath stand still for a while and give it some serious thought please.
Big big hugs and warmest thoughts.Win