Hi, about a month ago my husband (76) was diagnosed as having Dementia with Lewy Bodies. His symptoms had been around for about 18-24 months and he finally went to speak with our GP. Having the neurologist put the diagnosis into words was like a slap in the face and I (71) have been reeling ever since (even though we knew in our hearts). Generally, he has been most affected by his memory dysfunction whilst I have been most affected by his cognitive impairment and I miss those what if.. conversations and exploring options and forming conclusions. They also asked him to stop driving so my world has done a total 360 change. Whereas he used to go out 3-4 times a week and I would do the same now I’m trying to keep most of my activities going but having to take him to his and due to distance wait for him to finish is eating into my spare time for washing/cleaning and chill time. I am not complaining, I would move heaven and earth for him but I find I’m always on the go and helping him with his activities at home eg crosswords which he can’t complete on his own any more, means I have even less time. I feel guilty going out because he can’t just pop out independently. Thankfully he still does all the cooking and can manage to walk to the supermarket to buy a few things independently, successfully (although I have to pick him up as he probably couldn’t walk back with shopping due to other medical issues). My main mission in life now is to keep his body and mind active. He is on Parkinson medication to help movement and is due to start a patch which may help in the medium term.
I‘m coping quite well and don’t feel the need for external help yet and as we know each person has their own individual journey with their own timescales so the future is unknown.
So, that’s where I’m coming from. I’m looking forward to reading other people’s journeys and helpful suggestions.
I‘m coping quite well and don’t feel the need for external help yet and as we know each person has their own individual journey with their own timescales so the future is unknown.
So, that’s where I’m coming from. I’m looking forward to reading other people’s journeys and helpful suggestions.
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