My husband’s memory loss has got worse really quickly over the last 6 months. His memory test score decreased by 16 points between June and November. I still love and want to support him but I also need to protect my own mental health because there are days when I just can’t stop crying. People tell me to care for myself, have breaks etc but I don’t know how to do the things I need to do to stay sane without worrying all the time about leaving Pete to his own devices and feeling incredibly guilty.
I’m also wondering whether to book a holiday. We both need something to look forward to but I don’t know how well Pete can cope now in a strange environment and will it just be a cause of stress for him and frustration for me. How do others manage the holiday issue? I would really welcome any advice.
I’m also wondering whether to book a holiday. We both need something to look forward to but I don’t know how well Pete can cope now in a strange environment and will it just be a cause of stress for him and frustration for me. How do others manage the holiday issue? I would really welcome any advice.