Hello everyone, haven’t posted for a while but could really do with some advice/ moral support. Both my parents have dementia, my mother 91 more advanced than my dad 88, and have needed to move to a home for some time but resisted it. Things began to a come to a head in March and after a safeguarding meeting their council approved move for both to a really good nearby home. Then lockdown, and then a corona outbreak in home, now mercifully under control. So first the move was on hold and not in their best interests with in days of being in their best interests, and now the odds (so far as I and their GP can calculate them) are back in favour of a move. That move, in theory, happens tomorrow. I will be on my own- my shielded husband can’t come and afterwards we will need to separate for 14 days, if we can bear it. I haven’t been able to see my parents since the lockdown, the extra care housing and my husband’s situation haven’t allowed that. So when I turn up that will be strange enough. Then trying to move them even more so. My mother thinks there is nothing wrong with her, complains no one helps her, rejects all offers of help from her carers, slips onto the floor when getting out of bed, wants an ambulance every time she gets indigestion, yet rejects the idea that she needs the extra help a nursing home could provide. My dad, whose dementia is less advanced, says he will move as best for my mum and in next breath angrily says doesn’t want to move, like he wants me to take responsibility for it so he isn’t to blame, and then, of course, forgets entire conversation ever took place. All of which is a very long way of saying I am absolutely terrified of what tomorrow holds, which may account for the migraines I’ve had for the past ten days. So any ideas or suggestions on how to proceed much appreciated. Thank you. Debbie.