After many years of trying to get my 80 year old mother accessed for Dementia/Alzheimer's . Yesterday they finally diagnosed her as having Multiple Dementia. However the symptoms that she is displaying have been there for as long as I can remember but just getting more frequent and intense. The whole family has always said that she has had serious mental health issues, but nobody would listen as the Jeykll side would be out when seeing anyone else. I am now desperate at the thought of this getting even worse.
She is abusive, bullying , manipulative, opinionated etc. etc. I can not communicate with her everything I say she argues against and I either have to stick up for my self or shut up. I have had 50 years of this and don't think I can cope anymore. I just want to walk away but at the end of the day she is my mother! and there is no one else to see to her.
All my friends who have known me since being a child say , stay away. She has ruined enough of your life already. My daughters tolerate her for my sake , but will not do anymore as she is vile to them too.
I am not a bad person. If I was I would have walked away like my deceased brother did years ago. I have this strong sense of loyalty but it is destroying me and making me ill.
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She is abusive, bullying , manipulative, opinionated etc. etc. I can not communicate with her everything I say she argues against and I either have to stick up for my self or shut up. I have had 50 years of this and don't think I can cope anymore. I just want to walk away but at the end of the day she is my mother! and there is no one else to see to her.
All my friends who have known me since being a child say , stay away. She has ruined enough of your life already. My daughters tolerate her for my sake , but will not do anymore as she is vile to them too.
I am not a bad person. If I was I would have walked away like my deceased brother did years ago. I have this strong sense of loyalty but it is destroying me and making me ill.
Any suggestions would be gratefully received