Hello. I am new here but your forums really help me and my mum..thank you
My Mum and Dad live with us and my Dad has worsening Alzheimers (he is 81 but had it for about 3 years)
My Mum is okay but worn out by looking after him and he is often really horrible to be around and in dark moods (she is 82) so I have suggested we start get some part-time help at home as respite in the day, if only for a few hours to start with
Does anyone have any advice how to:
1. Find a good carer (West Cornwall)
2. Introduce a carer into Dad's life? He of course isn't aware that he needs help so I can't imagine he will initially be very happy about the idea..
We believe we need to self fund this so that's of course very difficult too.
thank you in advance and wishing everyone love and best wishes x
My Mum and Dad live with us and my Dad has worsening Alzheimers (he is 81 but had it for about 3 years)
My Mum is okay but worn out by looking after him and he is often really horrible to be around and in dark moods (she is 82) so I have suggested we start get some part-time help at home as respite in the day, if only for a few hours to start with
Does anyone have any advice how to:
1. Find a good carer (West Cornwall)
2. Introduce a carer into Dad's life? He of course isn't aware that he needs help so I can't imagine he will initially be very happy about the idea..
We believe we need to self fund this so that's of course very difficult too.
thank you in advance and wishing everyone love and best wishes x