Hi, I am a new member, and I’m a carer for my wife who was diagnosed with Altziemers/vascular dementia last year, we are both in our seventies, i have two stepsons in their fifties and both work.
I am the main carer, and i must admit it’s hard on my own, as my wife has mood swings and is very forgetful, and has lost track of time and days.
I have never cooked much since we were married, and i find that preparing and cooking food on a regular basis very challenging, especially trying to think of the right food to buy in the supermarket, i end up throwing a lot of food away as it doesn’t get eaten, not to mention the expense.
At the moment she gets pleasure from having for our neighbours dog four days a week as we lost ours in 2021,
Coping with my wife’s illness is starting to get me down, as i don't have anything to look forward to in life anymore, knowing that things will get worse, feelings of despair and hopelessness are becoming more frequent as time goes by.
I am the main carer, and i must admit it’s hard on my own, as my wife has mood swings and is very forgetful, and has lost track of time and days.
I have never cooked much since we were married, and i find that preparing and cooking food on a regular basis very challenging, especially trying to think of the right food to buy in the supermarket, i end up throwing a lot of food away as it doesn’t get eaten, not to mention the expense.
At the moment she gets pleasure from having for our neighbours dog four days a week as we lost ours in 2021,
Coping with my wife’s illness is starting to get me down, as i don't have anything to look forward to in life anymore, knowing that things will get worse, feelings of despair and hopelessness are becoming more frequent as time goes by.