Morning all. First time posting. My mother has had dementia for several years now, has been in a care home for the past two years (self funding). We recently had a CHC meeting and funded nursing care was approved, so the usual increase in her private fees came along with this. I'm wondering what extra I should expect the home to provide now my Mother has the nursing care. She's easily managed, rarely leaves her room, not on any meds at all, is still fully mobile and able to feed herself. From what I witness beyond personal care and putting food in front of her the home staff do little else. Her room is completely sripped bare as she is destructive, she won't leave sheets on the bed - so they no longer make the bed. She removes the seat pad from her chair - so that's no longer there either. I feel a a loss, I'm her only child, and it feels like such a huge battle to take the care home on alone. Is there any support I should be getting? We don't have a care manager. I try to approach it in a professional manner, the care home is a business after all, but I struggle not to get emotional, it's my Mother we're talking about and I feel I'm letting her down.