Thank you
@Izzy and
@Grannie G , I have spoken with my brother in law who has advised me to try to step back from involvement with the neighbour. I will do but it’s difficult as he was one of a few who kept visiting. He is doing better at the moment.
Like you,
@granny G, he has also counselled that I try to ignore discussion of the will. If it becomes an issue I have a script and relevant dates etc . So sad and maybe I overreacted; it is such a sensitive subject and throughout our marriage I have always supported his daughters and grandchildren - financially and emotionally.
I have an appointment with my solicitor next week to discuss how I can ensure that my husband’s pecuniary legacies can be funded. I know that I don’t need to do this but I want to.
I will be meeting the family later in the summer so hoping things are as easy going as they have been up till now.
So feeling more positive and all being well I will go up north tomorrow and bring Mam back on Sunday. She’s good company and it lovely to spoil her. I am making up for the years I couldn’t visit as I couldn’t or wouldn’t leave my husband. At 93 she comes with some health issues but we manage them together, mainly mobility and she takes water tablets. I’ve told her that I know every toilet stop on our journey. It will be a fortnight of garden centres, gardens, country parks, shopping, tea and cake, watching Emmerdale and Coronation Street and whatever she wants to do. So, if she wants a duvet day she can have one!
Hope we all have a good weekend x