Hi All, My dad has Alzheimers and was diagnosed several years ago. He is 91, and living at home still, although he now has 24 in home carers who are very good. He does not really know who they are, but does seem to accept they are there to help and support him. Dad has lived in his home for over 40 years, so has many automatic things he does. He knows where the loo is, and does potter about at home, while being supported by the carer. I do not live locally, so cannot get to see him as much as I would likem, and he has no other relatives locally. The neighbours are good too, However, as dads short term memory gets worse he does less and less, and doses more. I often wonder what his world is like? What does he think about all day? When I go to see him, he generally seems in good spirits, but I do feel guilty that I should be doing more. I think I am doing the best for him, keeping him at home, as that is always what he wanted.
I just feel a bit rubbish sometimes, especially as Christmas is coming up, but I feel that he would really hate full time residential care, and the automatic knowledge he has by being at home keeps some independence and dignity, which he may lose in a care home.
I just feel a bit rubbish sometimes, especially as Christmas is coming up, but I feel that he would really hate full time residential care, and the automatic knowledge he has by being at home keeps some independence and dignity, which he may lose in a care home.