Hello
@Dolly78
I am so sorry to hear about your dad and the way he is now at end of life.
When someone with dementia dies it is neither quick nor pretty Im afraid. The body closes down slowly over days or weeks and at the end they stop eating and drinking altogether because their body can no longer process it.
But the body clings to life and goes on for much longer than you would think possible. My mum went on for 17 days with no food or fluid and I had a feeling of "dear god, how can she possibly still be alive?". It is such a difficult twilight world, like living in limbo when when you want them to die yet cannot bear the thought of it happening and it seems as though the world stands still and reduces to the size of a room.
The end will come though, and Im glad that she is being kept pain-free. You will notice physical changes like the limbs growing cold, the skin mottling and, right at the end, the breathing will change so that there are gaps between breaths.
Make sure you look after yourself during this last long vigil and dont forget to eat and sleep
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