I had started a needs assessment for my mum who suffers with Alzheimer's last year. I explained to both her and my dad it was just so they could check what type of care, if any was needed, and that they didn't need to take up the offer. We could discuss it together.
After not hearing anything for a while I have just checked with social services and found that when they rang dad to talk about things he has said he's coping fine, and carers wouldn't be accept by my mum (which I honestly don't think is true.) The case was then closed before Christmas. I had asked him before Christmas and after Christmas if social services had called and he just kept denying it. This is typical form for my dad throughout his life, always knows best.
I'm angry, frustrated, upset, stressed. They so obviously cannot cope properly. Just do not know what to do anymore for the better, if he's going to keep refusing help.
After not hearing anything for a while I have just checked with social services and found that when they rang dad to talk about things he has said he's coping fine, and carers wouldn't be accept by my mum (which I honestly don't think is true.) The case was then closed before Christmas. I had asked him before Christmas and after Christmas if social services had called and he just kept denying it. This is typical form for my dad throughout his life, always knows best.
I'm angry, frustrated, upset, stressed. They so obviously cannot cope properly. Just do not know what to do anymore for the better, if he's going to keep refusing help.