I do feel for you. When William was still at home, when I would get a migraine - and in those days, they were still bad enough that there was nothing to be done but lie down and keep still, even though I couldn't actually go to bed. William had, years ago, bought me a special "Migraine Blanket" in Avoca, a lovely wool, with blend of pinks, blues and greens. So I would curl up in a chair or on the couch with the blanket - and when he saw the blanket, he knew I was ill. So in latter years, he would just get so upset! Unfortunately, all I wanted was to be left alone - I get over-sensitive to light, smells, sounds and even touch when I have a bad migraine. And poor dear William would keep coming and sitting beside me, crying himself in sympathy, and patting me on the back, rubbing my head, and saying over and over (and over!) "poor mama! Poor mama! Don't cry! don't cry! You'll be ok! You'll be ok!" - poor man. If he only knew the temptation to strangle him at the time, except it would have meant moving! And bless him, he was doing his best. And that was a big improvement on the previous years of his illness, when no matter how sick I was, it didn't impinge on him at all. He still insisted he be brought here, there and everywhere - even when I was completely unsafe to drive! He just didn't get it - that lack of empathy. Very difficult part of the illness.