He has always been the favoured one but he shows no respect or love for her whatsoever and would bleed her dry if we weren't around, yet she can never seem to admit his faults and always makes excuses for him.
I read that on TP a lot how a love one seem to have favourer one particular sidling or that’s how they see it.
Just make me wonder & if I am truthful with myself, I do that with one of my 4 children.
One of my daughter complains to me how can I excuse his behaviour, she see it as his my favourite child,& they tell me that , his not it’s just that his my child even if his an adult & I just plain love him , you can’t just drop that love no matter how wrong the other sidling see him , I do not see that I am doing it, because I am not looking at it from the out side ,like my daughters do ,if you understand what I mean & I love them all the same , but its so hard to convince them of that .
I must say that when I was younger I use to think my mother use to do this with my brother, only since my mother has AD & my children have grown up ,do I see it in a different light .
My mother has change in a way since she had AD that I had wish that she would have been, when I was younger, she showing a nicer side of herself, I wonder am going to say it … is it because she feel she at my mercy? She felt that I never loved her as a child & I felt she never loved me as a child how wrong we both were & sometimes I feel she thinks I am looking after her another reason, but may –be that not her but the AD talking
That’s why I tell my children since childhood that I love them