Well I went to see the EMI unit today, very nice and not too many bedrooms on the unit. Very spacious so mum can wander round the place. The staff were lovely and the care worker I spoke with was very different to the ones at mums current home. It is a nice place and there are lots of staff even at weekend, and the whole ethos was very different, nothing is a problem in terms of behaviour (although I still think the care workers have aggravated mum rather than mum intentionally hitting out with her stick) and I'm hoping I can get something sorted so we can move mum soon.
I visited mum today and she was asking to come home, this is the first time she has really really asked the question, but she was fine when I said I wasn't going home but leaving to go to work. I said I would take her out tomorrow for a drive and some coffee and cake, which cheered her up. I felt terrible leaving her there today, but home isn't an option anymore.
My invisible brother let me and mum down again today and I am getting to the point of not communicating with him anymore, I would rather shove two red hot pokers in my eyes than deal with his nonsense and constant let downs. I don't know how I kept my cool today on the phone with him when he decided not to turn up and didn't even bother to call me to tell me as I waited to view the new CH. To be honest words fail me on this part of the journey, he'll soon be in touch though when mum passes -that boy only sees pound signs and I am sick of it!!