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@Palerider, good stuff re labelling the specs and slippers! I very occasionally found Mum attired in something that wasn't hers (e.g. a cardigan) where the laundry had got muddled up, but this was when she first moved in, and it did improve. The only time I forcefully complained was when they hadn't put Mum's slippers on (for some unknown reason), as she wasn't terribly mobile and quite frail (on a frame) it did present a risk. The Supervisor apologized saying it was an unacceptable error and she would look into it....it didn't happen again.....that said, the same thing happened with Home Care too, so my best guess is Mum told them she didn't want them on, but who knows! It does sound as though your Mum is much happier which is obviously what you want to see, although I do really appreciate it still a difficult period of adjustment for you. All the best.