That is exactly how I have approached it @Palerider, after initially going off at the deep end that is! The only plus point is the friendships from those that have been supportive (and some surprising and unexpected people) are stronger than ever.
I met with the Nationwide yesterday who mentioned in conversation they are bringing a mortgage product to market that is 0% deposit. This whole situation of carers being financially crippled is disgraceful - but nothing will be done about it.
On the positive, it sounds as though your Mum is content, which at the end of the day has always been what you have always strived for. Take care - all the best.
Morning @Pete1 -I agree some freindhips have surprised me from people I didn't expect, so thats a bonus defo
Yes, my finances have seen better days, but what to do? Mums pension was poor and things needed doing round the house as well as day to day stuff. My savings have vanished and its cost me a small fortune keeping myself and mum going over the last four years -but things have to paid and jobs need doing etc. Getting the outside of the house painted was one thing that had to be done to the tune of a few thousand pounds -but its done and one less thing to worry about as we approach sale of the property.
I wonder if Nationwide will consider me