I am sorry that your visits are how they are, Sylvia, and that Dhiren seems to be anxious about something. Could it be just confusion as to what is happening rather than something specific? Well, not 'just' confusion but I'm sure you'll know what I mean. Dave seems permanently worried, or in pain, or maybe frightened - it's so difficult to know when the words cannot be found to express the feelings.
You are so right in your approach to this and other concerns. If there was something that could be done, you would do it - but when all you can do is to comfort and reassure, as well as making sure Dhiren is well cared for, well fed and his needs addressed, you can do no more. Easy to write, easy to say - but harder to to endure. x
You are so right in your approach to this and other concerns. If there was something that could be done, you would do it - but when all you can do is to comfort and reassure, as well as making sure Dhiren is well cared for, well fed and his needs addressed, you can do no more. Easy to write, easy to say - but harder to to endure. x