Good morning Sylvia,
You have reached a very significant turning point and I know only too well the feelings that can be involved. However, you and Dhiren have something which is of tremendous importance and that is that you have already found a good place and a place in which Dhiren was able to be the best that he could be. It is a place where you feel comfortable and trusting.
This home hasn't just appeared out of the blue, you have inched yourself forwards over a period of time preparing for such a time as this and I think you have managed it wonderfully up to now. The next bit, because it is unsustainable, is probably about whether you take the next step or whether circumstances dictate. I think any decision you make now is about crisis prevention for both of you.
Lots of love
You have reached a very significant turning point and I know only too well the feelings that can be involved. However, you and Dhiren have something which is of tremendous importance and that is that you have already found a good place and a place in which Dhiren was able to be the best that he could be. It is a place where you feel comfortable and trusting.
This home hasn't just appeared out of the blue, you have inched yourself forwards over a period of time preparing for such a time as this and I think you have managed it wonderfully up to now. The next bit, because it is unsustainable, is probably about whether you take the next step or whether circumstances dictate. I think any decision you make now is about crisis prevention for both of you.
Lots of love