It all went so well.
I`m delighted.
When R came Dhiren had just finished his lunch and was about to file his fingernails. R offered to do them for him and he was grateful. So from the start there was hands on care which Dhiren accepted with gratitude.
I left some photo albums and the computer, so if Dhiren slept or wasn`t sociable R could use the computer but still be in the living room with Dhiren. He is used to that with me and I felt he would accept it with R.
When I arrived home Dhiren looked cross and my heart sank. I asked if he was all right and he replied why shouldn`t he be. He was fidgeting with the neckline of his jumper. I asked what was wrong. He said he was looking for the clip.
It turned out he was too hot, was looking for the tag of a zip to take his sweater off. But he hadn`t realized he had a jumper on and was getting even more hot and bothered.
Once I realized what was wrong and helped him take his jumper off, he was fine.
R said they had chatted and looked at some photos,and after a while Dhiren kept asking what time I`d be home. They watched television. It was Jeremy Kyle. I asked Dhiren if he would like Countdown and turned it over.
Before R left I introduced her to TP. I showed her how to find it and she seemed very interested. I hope this will mean another professional recruit.
As she prepared to leave she shook hands with Dhiren and he asked if she would be coming again. She said she would, next Monday and he said `Good.`.
After she`d left he was very animated. He said what a nice woman she was and agreed it had been good for him to have some different company for a change,other than me.
Eureka!
I`m delighted.
When R came Dhiren had just finished his lunch and was about to file his fingernails. R offered to do them for him and he was grateful. So from the start there was hands on care which Dhiren accepted with gratitude.
I left some photo albums and the computer, so if Dhiren slept or wasn`t sociable R could use the computer but still be in the living room with Dhiren. He is used to that with me and I felt he would accept it with R.
When I arrived home Dhiren looked cross and my heart sank. I asked if he was all right and he replied why shouldn`t he be. He was fidgeting with the neckline of his jumper. I asked what was wrong. He said he was looking for the clip.
It turned out he was too hot, was looking for the tag of a zip to take his sweater off. But he hadn`t realized he had a jumper on and was getting even more hot and bothered.
Once I realized what was wrong and helped him take his jumper off, he was fine.
R said they had chatted and looked at some photos,and after a while Dhiren kept asking what time I`d be home. They watched television. It was Jeremy Kyle. I asked Dhiren if he would like Countdown and turned it over.
Before R left I introduced her to TP. I showed her how to find it and she seemed very interested. I hope this will mean another professional recruit.
As she prepared to leave she shook hands with Dhiren and he asked if she would be coming again. She said she would, next Monday and he said `Good.`.
After she`d left he was very animated. He said what a nice woman she was and agreed it had been good for him to have some different company for a change,other than me.
Eureka!
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