Thank you, I got hearing check cos she seems to not hear what you are saying, no problem. Mental health doc said she observes a frequent lack of concentration which would account for not hearing. Mum will walk away mid conversation and if on the phone will put it down and walk away.Hi @DollyBird16
It wasn’t always like this with big brother, he promised to help out, but then didn’t. He only came round when I phoned, nagged & pleaded & I had to collect him & drop him home. It’s taken 2 long years for him to suggest coming over, get the train over himself or drop in on his way home from a client. I had to back off from asking him to do anything with Mum, he supports me & only me, not Mum. So with the pressure off him to do anything, he gradually came round to being there for me so I can look after Mum
Does you Mum have hearing aids? Maybe there is some distortion. Can she hear a radio or tv but not making the connection of noises. I’m just thinking out loud
I talk to myself often at least I get the right answer - lol.
Brother is an interesting read I hope we’ll get there, his wife can be difficult and he puts her first (or is not man enough to say anything!)
Must get to bed work in the morning. I’ve ruined my gained hour, thank goodness for eye cream and my newly discovered eye pads, sure i’ll look 20 ok 23! X