Well the incontinence thing is a different story. I've been trying to get referred for about 2 months. Think it's because it costs them money so they put it off. But did get a district nurse call when OH needed a blood test and I couldn't get him to surgery.I have been waiting for the district nurse to visit/phone for the last 3 weeks due to his incontinence but getting nowhere and have made numerous phone calls asking them to ring me. Will go to the surgery on Monday - thank you.