Thank you @Duggie - that was a kind comment and meant a lot.I feel what you are going through so deeply. I get very impatient with my husband at times and then I feel horrible about myself.
He has vascular dementia and was diagnosed two years ago.
We still have many good days, but we also have some very difficult days. I can get very resentful, tired, and angry. I don't like that about myself. But we're human - just doing the best we can in very difficult situations that we never asked for.
You sound like a wonderful person to me. Don't be hard on yourself. Your hibby is lucky to have you take care of him.
I feel less frustrated now that this is on my radar. Prior to this, in the weeks/months running up to thinking this could be a possibility, I felt so much anger and upset, at the lack of compassion and empathy.
Things make more sense now and I can be more forgiving about things and make allowances. Though I know from this forum that this is by far probably the best it will be.
We are only human though as you say and I think that it is important that we don’t feel like we have to sound like angels all the time and can at least come here and be open about the toll that it takes on us.
I’m glad that you say you have some good days as well - it must help keep the bond there.
As with your words, don’t feel bad about yourself for having natural responses to the most difficult of times.
Thank you, take care x
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