Hi Alice
Did you get to your Christmas party? If you did then I hope you managed to enjoy it.
We had a lovely treat today. An unexpected parcel was delivered. No idea what, not expecting anything. It was a gorgeous hamper from my son and wife, full of wine and treats. I think they think things are bad for us and we might starve!
My online Christmas food will be delivered tomorrow with loads of treats!
I was really interested to read about your husbands diary input. My husband keeps a diary on his iPad. He notes everything that is going to happen, who will be visiting, appointments etc. Yet, WHY can’t he remember what he has to do when he gets out of bed, or when I change his pad? He will stand there asking me what he has to do, so I say pull your trousers down, step by step. Yet he can remember to fill his diary, everything. And mostly.... it’s correct! I don’t understand. Will I ever understand. Is life testing me?
Take care Alice, stay warm and stay safe, love B xx
How lovely to get a hamper of goodies.
Well we did not make it! No surprise there. By the time we could have started to walk up it would have been over.
I was glad of the extra time at home though, until yesterday I had a workman here for a few days so was glad to catch up. I had several things piled up. I had to prepare a parcel for a Hermes collection tomorrow. A simple banking thing took hours plus phone call and many attempts. The bank have changed the app I use.
We have got the tree ready to decorate tomorrow,
My husband was still very active 18 years ago, but I was concerned about his memory I used to have to remind him to phone someone etc. We were both involved in some work with a group. That's is when the diary habit started, a small black book!
It was useful, now everything is put in even some events we would not go to,
I think when he realised he was forgetting it became a memory aid, now it is that but an anchor too.
It is a strange illness, sometimes there almost seems nothing wrong, then there is a disinterest. A need for monitoring constantly, prompts.
It was brought home the other day when we needed to sort out new keys. I bought coloured key caps to help identify. I have persuaded ( I think ) that he does not need all in his pocket all the time.
Suddenly Christmas looks more possible, I has a burst of energy and cleaned the glass doors on the bookcases, we have a lot! The mirrors sparkle. Cards were sent a few days ago, I really was running late.
My order is coming on Christmas Eve but I have been getting a few treats over the last few week. I have put one in for the 31st too.
We usually sit up, days of parties are over!
I had a chat with my carer assessor, she has been supportive, she has another idea about transport for a day centre, she she will follow it up in the New Year. People had left for the holiday.
She wished me a peaceful Christmas, I said that is what we all need on here. Well yawning now, so I think I will settle early tonight. Please pace yourself, really nothing is that important apart from keeping on an even keel!
Much love, Alice xxx