Most of you are aware of my sorry story so I won't bore you all with it But, during the months that OH was away, some people were really good to me. Our neighbours helped on a number of occasions and my half-brother was always on the end of the phone if I needed him. There were also a couple of friends that dropped everything to help me when I needed some help.
However, OH has now been home for ten months and they have all disappeared. Our neighbours now rush indoors if they see us coming and my half-brother's conversations have reduced from one hour, twice per week to five minutes every couple of months. I haven't heard from the friends since he came home.
At first I thought they were giving us time and space to settle down but it seems more than that now. I have to admit to being disappointed.
However, OH has now been home for ten months and they have all disappeared. Our neighbours now rush indoors if they see us coming and my half-brother's conversations have reduced from one hour, twice per week to five minutes every couple of months. I haven't heard from the friends since he came home.
At first I thought they were giving us time and space to settle down but it seems more than that now. I have to admit to being disappointed.