HI is there anyone who would talk to me. I am my husbands carer. He has vascular dementia and I am finding life very difficult at the moment. He is very difficult to live with at the moment. I can't talk to him as he doesn't listen to me and makes his own mind up about what I say. This can be a casual sentence by me and he comes back with things I don't understand. He seems to mix everything up and its very lonely for me.