My OH has Alzheimer's and also skin cancer, Following day surgery, next week he has an outpatient appointment. The day surgery was an early start and the outpatient appointment is right at the end of the day. Early and late are a problem for him as he gets very tired and very anxious/confused about time and transport and I haven't been able to change the time of the appointment - other journeys on the train/taxi weren't great.
I've managed to book him NHS transport to get to the hospital as thought this might be better but that doesn't include me. So the problem now is: I can stay home and put him on the transport but I wouldn't then get to the hospital under my own steam in time to be there with him so he'd be reliant on other people. Or I could leave early and travel on the train to the hospital leaving him home alone to wait for the transport. Neither seem a great option but I'm wondering, has anyone experience of NHS transport? They say they deliver the person to the clinic and collect them from there after the appointment - I don't think my husband would wander off but the worry is that they drop him off and leave him to find his own way to the right department which would confuse him. I don't have any carers to help as there hasn't been a need so far. If he lived alone then it could well be he'd have to use hospital transport so am I wrong to worry? What I thought was a good idea doesn't seem so good now and I'm thinking maybe I'd be better cancelling the NHS transport and both going on the train, Any advice would be most welcome.
I've managed to book him NHS transport to get to the hospital as thought this might be better but that doesn't include me. So the problem now is: I can stay home and put him on the transport but I wouldn't then get to the hospital under my own steam in time to be there with him so he'd be reliant on other people. Or I could leave early and travel on the train to the hospital leaving him home alone to wait for the transport. Neither seem a great option but I'm wondering, has anyone experience of NHS transport? They say they deliver the person to the clinic and collect them from there after the appointment - I don't think my husband would wander off but the worry is that they drop him off and leave him to find his own way to the right department which would confuse him. I don't have any carers to help as there hasn't been a need so far. If he lived alone then it could well be he'd have to use hospital transport so am I wrong to worry? What I thought was a good idea doesn't seem so good now and I'm thinking maybe I'd be better cancelling the NHS transport and both going on the train, Any advice would be most welcome.