Thank you for the good wishes
@Jezzer & I just read the whole thread before I replied & saw that you had had a lovely visit today.
And also to say that sometimes it is ok not to visit if you feel it is too much. My fiancé & I visited my mum every single day that she was in the big hospital which was quite something. Obviously if your PWD is unwell then you will want to see them but please don’t beat yourself up if you can’t make it.
I need to be in a good mindset to see my mum, as it is so difficult. If I am stressed or upset, I find she can pick up on it & it makes her crotchety too. It’s not a good mix. I have not seen her for a few days but I have her 3rd lot of slippers now arrived so I will go & see her tomorrow.
Sending big hugs to you xx