Hi there
Is it wrong to tell lies to our loved ones?!
I'm trying to plan Christmas! I know it's early but with multiple people to organise around me I have to start now!!
I hope I'm not a bad person by even thinking this let alone saying it but I want a stress free Christmas without thinking about entertaining my parents!! They aren't even so bad right now and I know it's going to get a whole lot worse so I shouldn't be looking to bail on them now but sadly I want too!!
I've asked my brother if he can have mum stay for two weeks over the period. I need to give myself a break but also my husband and son.
If I told mum we were going away so she doesn't start thinking I've abandoned her or that she could come to us would that be so wrong?
Obviously lies breed more lies so I'm not comfortable doing this but last year at Christmas I had so many texts and calls when she was only with my brother for a few days!
Gosh I sound awful 😔
Is it wrong to tell lies to our loved ones?!
I'm trying to plan Christmas! I know it's early but with multiple people to organise around me I have to start now!!
I hope I'm not a bad person by even thinking this let alone saying it but I want a stress free Christmas without thinking about entertaining my parents!! They aren't even so bad right now and I know it's going to get a whole lot worse so I shouldn't be looking to bail on them now but sadly I want too!!
I've asked my brother if he can have mum stay for two weeks over the period. I need to give myself a break but also my husband and son.
If I told mum we were going away so she doesn't start thinking I've abandoned her or that she could come to us would that be so wrong?
Obviously lies breed more lies so I'm not comfortable doing this but last year at Christmas I had so many texts and calls when she was only with my brother for a few days!
Gosh I sound awful 😔