Just needing some advice please.
This started very subtly with my SF not being familiar with where he was, but it would always come back that he was at home.
For the last 2-3 months maybe longer, every day for hours he is saying ‘when are we going home?’. We try to reassure him that he’s home, but within seconds he’s saying it again.
We’ve just had an episode that has been going for ages when he keeps looking for his car keys to leave (he’s obviously not driven for a long time) but when my mother says you don’t have a car he laughs at her, he thinks she’s joking.
I’m guessing his short term memory is at most 2 seconds.
He’s lived in the house he’s in for over 40 years. I don’t know if he’s confused as he went into respite last year for a month as my mother was ill, perhaps he still thinks he’s there and wants to get ‘home’.
We shown him the pictures of his sons on the walls, pictures of mum, grandkids but of course it doesn’t really help.
It’s so upsetting to know that in his mind he’s completely lost. I can’t imagine how scary it must be to not feel like you’re at home.
The other morning at 3am he went into my mums room and said ‘quick we’ve got to go, they’ll be back soon, we can’t be here’ and then he got me up saying ‘hurry, get ready, we’re leaving’. It took us a good 2 hours to get him back settled.
Any ideas how to navigate around this sad part of Alzheimer’s.
Thank you.
This started very subtly with my SF not being familiar with where he was, but it would always come back that he was at home.
For the last 2-3 months maybe longer, every day for hours he is saying ‘when are we going home?’. We try to reassure him that he’s home, but within seconds he’s saying it again.
We’ve just had an episode that has been going for ages when he keeps looking for his car keys to leave (he’s obviously not driven for a long time) but when my mother says you don’t have a car he laughs at her, he thinks she’s joking.
I’m guessing his short term memory is at most 2 seconds.
He’s lived in the house he’s in for over 40 years. I don’t know if he’s confused as he went into respite last year for a month as my mother was ill, perhaps he still thinks he’s there and wants to get ‘home’.
We shown him the pictures of his sons on the walls, pictures of mum, grandkids but of course it doesn’t really help.
It’s so upsetting to know that in his mind he’s completely lost. I can’t imagine how scary it must be to not feel like you’re at home.
The other morning at 3am he went into my mums room and said ‘quick we’ve got to go, they’ll be back soon, we can’t be here’ and then he got me up saying ‘hurry, get ready, we’re leaving’. It took us a good 2 hours to get him back settled.
Any ideas how to navigate around this sad part of Alzheimer’s.
Thank you.