Another stupidly early Good Morning from me! Wide awake since 3.30a.m, tossing and turning and just cat-napping for most of the night before that - I'll pay for it later, but nothing I can do, because once I am properly awake, that's it!
I'm so glad that Skycat is still doing so well, Slugsta - really hoping that your Hubby is right and she has actually recovered from whatever it was that ailed her.
Also glad that your Mum is still able to enjoy things like chocolate - as you say, whilst she can tuck into them, hopefully it means she is doing OK
Spamar, I hope the funeral went well and that attending it didn't cause you too much pain and exhaustion. I have been thinking about you xxx
Had a really nice weekend with son, his GF and (of course) my Granddog
The only problem was when Patch and my two dogs all wanted cuddles and fussing at the same time - I just didn't have enough hands to go round! We skipped the peace day celebrations because my stupid back was really sore, and I was also having problems with ankle and hip being painful. Added to which it was wet, and would have been muddy too - could see me quite easily going for a tumble, and I'm going to be too busy this week to risk additional aches and pains from a fall! Sunday, more or less ache and pain free, we headed to one of the big local car boot sales - I love those places, if only to hunt for more vinatge camera's to add to my collection! And they are great places for a spot of photography, too. I picked up a box brownie model that I didn't have, and a vintage polaroid, plus a box brownie twin 20 from the 1960's, and added to the mix two sets of very old bulbs for camera flash guns, and a very old exposure metre - I like the acessories to the old camera's as much as I like the actual camera's. I realised when we got there that although I'd brought my camera, I had really stupidly switched to a different camera bag and not transferred any SD cards over, so thought I'd have to miss out on taking any pictures. But, at a typical bits and bobs stall, found a small modern camera for just £2, that had a 16 gig memory card in it, working perfectly - so got myself a bargain and could take pics after all
After the car booty, we headed to see Mil. Well, my goodness - what a change!
As soon as we got into the corridor leading to the lounge, we could hear her - as my late Gran would have said, she was 'effing and jeffing' like I don't know what
Someone was being told where to go, and being referred to as a b***h! As soon as she spotted OH, though, her face lit up and she was all smiles. She named all of us correctly, which completely surprised me and she was chattier than we have seen her since our return from Rhodes. Confabulating (of course) with just about everything she said. One of the staff came past pushing a trolley laden with laundry, which prompted Mil to remind son's GF of the time she had had her 'new coat, torn half off her back' by the same woman, pushing the same trolley, last year (?), we got a tale about how she had been working 'in the office', doing 'office things' and an account of how she had been to church that morning. There was no over the top attention or possessiveness for OH, though - in fact, as one point, they brought her lunch and once OH turned her chair more to face the table, putting him out of her line of sight, she seemed not to realise that he was even there. Little D ( the lady who is 100 years old) was up and about and as she often does, she made a bee-line for OH, holding his hands, gabbling away to him and even trying to dance with him (I hope I can still attempt jig at her age!) - Mil saw this, but it didn't bother her at all - which was much better than the very obvious crossness that we were getting just a few weeks ago, if Little D came anywhere near OH.
However, she is still 'off' with me, sadly. Son said something about where we had been that morning and Mil couldn't quite grasp it - she looked at me for clarification (I thought) but when I explained that we had all been to an 'outdoor market' (she clearly couldn't remember the term Car boot sale) she asked if sone and GF lived with me, and when I said no, she then really nastily snapped - 'then how the hell do YOU know what they did this morning?'. When I asked if she had enjoyed church, in the middle of her detailed account of the service she claimed to have gone to that morning, she responded as though I'd insulted her by even asking
And there were several more similar instances. So, somewhere in her head, for whatever reason, I'm still not her favourite person, obviously.
A member of staff made a passing remark to Mil, which prompted Mil to mouth at her to '**** off' - no idea why, the staff hadn't said anything to cause offence that I could see!
They brought her lunch whilst we were there, and again, she struggled. It wasn't that she didn't want it, but she simply cannot coordinate to do things like cut meat anymore, and even the hand eye coordination to get the fork to her mouth is difficult for her. In addition, she was leaning forward to try and get the food in her mouth and each time she did, her top dentures were falling down and sliding forwards. The price of her being so switched on yesterday, was that she realised that she was struggling, dropping her food and in danger of losing her teeth, and so she gave up pretty quickly. I came out with some on the spur story about how I'd cut her meat for her because it's 'difficult to do when you have a sore wrist' - she jumped on that as a reason, and allowed me to cut the meat for her, and she then finished most opf her meal. I also had a quiet word with a member of staff about the dentures, no excuse for them not being fixed in place as I'd stocked up on her toiletries the week before and that included me brining in two lots of denture fixative.
We stayed for just under an hour, and no problem with us leaving - she wasn't that bothered. It was good to see her so much more alert and chatty, but sad that she still is fairly antagonistic with me. No idea why the improvement, no idea if next time we go she will be the same, better again, sleeping or back to barely speaking and not having a clue who we are!
Really hectic week ahead, so not sure when I'll get the chance to pop in again - sheep painting, pond weed pulling, CD making and nature reserve visiting on the agenda this week, as well as loads and loads of the usual admin!
Take care and much love to all xxxx