Hi, mum has Alzheimer's and still lives on her own. In the last weeks, especially as nights have got darker her sense of day or night has gone completely. I had always spoken to her at 9.30pm, before she gets ready for bed, but now I honestly don't know when she's going to bed and if she's sleeping a lot in the day, she's definitely not as active.
Go to visit at 6pm..house locked up lights off etc assume in bed
This almost inevitably means I'll get phone calls during the night, usually between 3 and 4 am when she is up and thinking its day time wanting me to stop by. No matter what time of day it is she seems to think it's the opposite and trying to convince her otherwise is futile.
What should I do?
Really taking a toll on me now to have so much interrupted sleep myself and have to keep my life going as normal. I am only family and no support packages in place yet.
Go to visit at 6pm..house locked up lights off etc assume in bed
This almost inevitably means I'll get phone calls during the night, usually between 3 and 4 am when she is up and thinking its day time wanting me to stop by. No matter what time of day it is she seems to think it's the opposite and trying to convince her otherwise is futile.
What should I do?
Really taking a toll on me now to have so much interrupted sleep myself and have to keep my life going as normal. I am only family and no support packages in place yet.