Hi, I'm still fairly new here and made a post about my grandmother being in the hospital with aspiration pneumonia. At the time she was in a delirium and didn't recognise me at all. Thankfully the delirium passed after a day and she was discharged and back home again. While she is mostly back to how she was before she went into hospital but there are a few concerning changes in behavior.
She seems to get agitated in the early evening. She'll constantly fixate on something trivial like whether she's had her breakfast or whether she's had her tablets, she will also keep asking me to phone a doctor to check her breathing even though it's fine. I suspect she's started sundowning but the worst is she's calling during the night with these queries. A few nights it's been constant through to the early hours of the morning and I'm getting practically no sleep.
Another thing that's started more recently (and this may sound silly) but as night draws in she will start to complain of an itchy bottom and will constantly shout me up so I can lift her body up to scratch. Some nights it seems to go on every five minutes until she tires herself out. I've tried to wash the area even more thoroughly than normal but as soon as night draws it starts. The itchiness is now happening during the day but in her legs and she's constantly scratching, I suspect this is the dementia and it's all in her head but has anyone else experienced this and have any thoughts how to get her to focus on something else other than her itchiness or very least help her to drift off to sleep at night as currently I'm running on a few hours a night.
She seems to get agitated in the early evening. She'll constantly fixate on something trivial like whether she's had her breakfast or whether she's had her tablets, she will also keep asking me to phone a doctor to check her breathing even though it's fine. I suspect she's started sundowning but the worst is she's calling during the night with these queries. A few nights it's been constant through to the early hours of the morning and I'm getting practically no sleep.
Another thing that's started more recently (and this may sound silly) but as night draws in she will start to complain of an itchy bottom and will constantly shout me up so I can lift her body up to scratch. Some nights it seems to go on every five minutes until she tires herself out. I've tried to wash the area even more thoroughly than normal but as soon as night draws it starts. The itchiness is now happening during the day but in her legs and she's constantly scratching, I suspect this is the dementia and it's all in her head but has anyone else experienced this and have any thoughts how to get her to focus on something else other than her itchiness or very least help her to drift off to sleep at night as currently I'm running on a few hours a night.
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