That is a good point if it's your mum that is saying that your siblings have taken things @SuecjAre you sure they have taken them - could your mum have put them somewhere?
Be careful with valuables. When dad went on respite I stupidly let him take his watch. Massive sentimental value and worth a bit as well. Care home can't find it and they're not even bothering to show any willingness to find it. It's definitely been stolen because it's been 5 months now. Everything he had went missing, clothes, wallet and cash, TV remote control, jacket, toiletries, mobile phone etc. all he came home with was 1 pair of mismatched pjs, 2 jumpers, 1 pair of undies (they didn't tell me he'd become doubly incontinent, I found that out myself the following morning)and his slippers. Care home absolutely do not give a monkeys and he paid £1000 a week for that privilege xHello @Suecj , welcome to the group. I'm sorry you are upset by the actions of your siblings.
Have you asked them calmly why they have removed the valuables? You don't say what the valuables are but did they do it because they thought they may get broken or lost or that mum may give them away?
Sadly, people with dementia are prone to hiding things and not knowing what they have done with them. Are carers going in and did your siblings feel that the valuables might lead to a theft temptation or damaged by cleaners?
Before you fall out with siblings over this please try and find out what they have to say.
Incidentally my oh has taken a shine to his shaver. He tends to carry it around in his pocket . At the moment it is missing, His mobility is extremely poor so it can't be far but I can't find where he has put it and he now has three days growth on his face. Looks like I'm going to have to buy another. 😂
@TMH ,have you tried these labels ?https://www.nametags4u.co.uk/care-and-nursing-homesBe careful with valuables. When dad went on respite I stupidly let him take his watch. Massive sentimental value and worth a bit as well. Care home can't find it and they're not even bothering to show any willingness to find it. It's definitely been stolen because it's been 5 months now. Everything he had went missing, clothes, wallet and cash, TV remote control, jacket, toiletries, mobile phone etc. all he came home with was 1 pair of mismatched pjs, 2 jumpers, 1 pair of undies (they didn't tell me he'd become doubly incontinent, I found that out myself the following morning)and his slippers. Care home absolutely do not give a monkeys and he paid £1000 a week for that privilege x