Scariest one thing

MatthewB

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I'm think to much on myself is super scary one I don't want to turn into selfish guy and I could whining so much and make folks feel bad and they have enough trouble already. God help me I need to quit that some big time
 

MatthewB

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You guys afraid about that one? Probably you guys are more nice for that. I'm don't want to be a bad guy that makes people sad
 

Izzy

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You guys write good I could do that to was not always like this

I’m sure that’s so @MatthewB.

You’re doing really well communicating here. It must be scary and upsetting for you but remember there will always be someone here to listen and support you.
 

Grannie G

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Hello @MatthewB

I can really understand how you must be feeling. My husband was scared and very unhappy. He couldn’t understand what was happening to him.

It sounds as if you are more aware than my husband was and I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.

I can only say your posts touch my heart and I hope you can feel the connections coming your way.

Keep posting. No need to pretend. Let us know how you’re managing. There’ll always be someone here for you.
 
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MatthewB

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I’m sure that’s so @MatthewB.

You’re doing really well communicating here. It must be scary and upsetting for you but remember there will always be someone here to listen and support you.
Thank you so many times to be so nice I'm promise to try not wihne so much God bless
 

MatthewB

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Hello @MatthewB

I can really understand how you must be feeling. My husband was scared and very unhappy. He couldn’t understand what was happening to him.

It sounds as if you are more aware than my husband was and I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.

I can only say your posts touch my heart and I hope you can feel the connections coming your way.

Keep posting. No need to pretend. Let us know how you’re managing. There’ll always be someone here for you.
I'm nowing you all are so good hearts and makes me happy. Thank you very much for kindness it is joy to talk to you all I now the Lord will bless you
 
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mikeb2

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My OH never complains and still work part time , I state he has so much too complain about, LBD and chronic pain in which he has trouble walking etc - the way he deals with it is meditation daily- a practice he has done for years - his memory specialist DR and the hospital always remark they don't know how he copes
 

MatthewB

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My OH never complains and still work part time , I state he has so much too complain about, LBD and chronic pain in which he has trouble walking etc - the way he deals with it is meditation daily- a practice he has done for years - his memory specialist DR and the hospital always remark they don't know how he copes
Yep I'm should be like that and work and stop complain you are rite I'm so sorry I will stop bother you all
 

Grannie G

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I agree with @Izzy @MatthewB

Dementia Talking Point is here to support all people with dementia and their carers. It is a safe place where the combined experiences of all our members is here to support and share.
 

jay6

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Mathew you aren't bothering anyone. This is what the forum is for. It is to support people with dementia and their carers. Chatting can help. No one here will think badly of you. Its why we are all here. To share our experiences in the hopes it will help others.
Please don't feel bad
 

NickP

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Please keep writing on here. There are always people on here to talk to. Take care.
 

MatthewB

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I'm thank s to you all for being so nice after I'm wine so much I'm and try very hard to not be complain. So many selfish ones in the world I don't want to be that way. I will much be more with the Lord than make my family life be sad to put them throw that but I want to stay for them so I can't turn in to a bad guy. I love them all so much I'm afraid to go away. My Lisa says I can't turn in to a bad guy I'm prY she is rite. There can be more happy time if I'm kep think of them not me. You all are a big blessing I'm read your things so kind and I don't feel so more sad so thank yuo
 

jay6

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I'm thank s to you all for being so nice after I'm wine so much I'm and try very hard to not be complain. So many selfish ones in the world I don't want to be that way. I will much be more with the Lord than make my family life be sad to put them throw that but I want to stay for them so I can't turn in to a bad guy. I love them all so much I'm afraid to go away. My Lisa says I can't turn in to a bad guy I'm prY she is rite. There can be more happy time if I'm kep think of them not me. You all are a big blessing I'm read your things so kind and I don't feel so more sad so thank yuo
Complain all you like on here, its a nasty disease which we can all understand. Try to remember you aren't alone Matthew ((hugs))
 

MatthewB

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Complain all you like on here, its a nasty disease which we can all understand. Try to remember you aren't alone Matthew ((hugs))
I'm can hug rite back you all so very nice to me I talk on the phone that america one but she just is saying dementions can't go away so eat good food not piza but I don't eat bad stuf no ways Sept some tater and gravy but not to much thank you all are the nisist ones.
 

jay6

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We are all here to try and help each other Matthew, those to unfortunately suffer with dementia and us carers who try to cope and understand.
 

yosser

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Hello Matthew, so you’ve recently discovered you have dementia. It’s a horrendous disease 🦠 which ever version you have. Five years into it now , I have my own way of keeping it at bay. Reading, listening 👂 to music 🎶 exercise ie walking, working out. There will be times when you will be confused & agitated, unfortunately this is all part of having it.
So take it easy, have questions there’s a lot of experienced people on this page, who will help you.
Geoff
 

Knitandpurl

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Matthew I don’t know why you think you are whining, and I am sure you are not turning into a nasty person. All of us on this Forum are dealing with this awful disease and for a lot of us it is having a moan on here that helps us to carry on being nice at home. Believe your wife when she tells you you are a good person and try to enjoy what you can in life. My husband is over 5 years into his dementia journey now but we still have plenty of nice times both together and with family. Life is often a challenge, for both of us, in different ways, but we still face them together. Sending you LOTS of good wishes and prayers.
 

MatthewB

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Boy you are all so nice I'm thank you very much I hope you all get so beter and hav so many happy time. I hope im pas that big test in the big town and maybe can work so much mor but not to be sad so my Lisa is feel bad. I now the Lord is with me and yuo and but sometimes I forget God forgiv me. He You all are big time helpers and I thank you very many. Be bless I'm praying.