Hello,
My husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer's Early Onset Dementia two years ago. He was 70 in July. I retired last year. We are doing ok, not long back from a weeks holiday in Greece which was lovely but the travel was very stressful. Last week he was poorly with Flu. One night he had a high temperature which caused him much confusion. He didn't know where he was and ended up peeing down the banister as he thought he was in the bathroom. Not a great evening and it just made me aware of how the future might pan out. We are going to get Power of Attorney sorted soon.
I'm scared of what the future might bring. My mum had Vascular Dementia and she came to live with us when we lost my dad, eventually having to move onto a care home. She passed away in 2018, six years after her diagnosis. Just taking it one day at a time.
I'm so glad I have found this forum. Thanks for reading.
Welcome from me too
@Joyful 57
I feel for you and your OH.
In view of what you said about your mum, you may have some understanding of how things may progress with your OH. It's tougher for you with your OH that it probably was for you with your mother, in my view, as you have a higher emotional involvement and closer relationship with your husband. Yes, you have to take it day by day, and although you know and are therefore fearful of the future, don't dwell on that.
Yes, get Powers of Attorney sorted as soon as convenient, and any necessary updating of Will.
Post whenever you feel the need.
Get children, if any, involved - to understand, and to help and support (yes, I know they have their own lives to lead). Keep up with your friends, if not by meeting as often as you did, they can call in to chat t you, or you can use the phone or email. It really helps to have other adults to chat with, as your OH will, if he hasn't already, start to lose ability to socialise, follow chit chat, etc - my OH has, and that takes some getting used to.
Best wishes to you and a virtual hug.