Hi this is my first thread here.
My mum , who has Alzheimer’s, is 75 and recently widowed.
I found out yesterday she had managed to book a holiday for herself over the phone, which sounds great only she must have convinced the person on the other end of the line that she was more capable than she is. I had to cancel it with a very heavy heart as it was totally unsuitable. She is in the worst state of dementia, knowing she has it but not able to make considered decisions for herself anymore. I handle all her finance , care etc.
She really wants and needs a break and it would be lovely if I could find somewhere she can stay near the sea ( Weston super mare preferable as there are relatives who could visit her).
I have realised that the best option is respite in a care home setting but I really don’t want her to feel she is being nursed, rather, actually having a ‘holiday’. She is an intelligent and fun loving lady desperately trying to be independent.
Are recommendations allowed on here? Are there any places that forum readers know of who could offer her that experience?
Would be so grateful for any ideas or advice.
My mum , who has Alzheimer’s, is 75 and recently widowed.
I found out yesterday she had managed to book a holiday for herself over the phone, which sounds great only she must have convinced the person on the other end of the line that she was more capable than she is. I had to cancel it with a very heavy heart as it was totally unsuitable. She is in the worst state of dementia, knowing she has it but not able to make considered decisions for herself anymore. I handle all her finance , care etc.
She really wants and needs a break and it would be lovely if I could find somewhere she can stay near the sea ( Weston super mare preferable as there are relatives who could visit her).
I have realised that the best option is respite in a care home setting but I really don’t want her to feel she is being nursed, rather, actually having a ‘holiday’. She is an intelligent and fun loving lady desperately trying to be independent.
Are recommendations allowed on here? Are there any places that forum readers know of who could offer her that experience?
Would be so grateful for any ideas or advice.