Different problems gigi but the same sentiments. There is no ideal. That`s why the decision is so difficult.In my heart I wouldn't want Eric to go into permanent care. In my heart I don't know how much longer I can tolerate this life here at home with him.
But I know it would be wrong to bring Dhiren home as I am unable to meet his needs.
If you continue as you are, you will be unable to meet Eric`s needs too.
Please don`t let it get to that stage.
I am not happy with our situation, neither is Dhiren. But I do know this is a compromise which meets both our needs, as far as they can be met.