every time I sit down and open the Sunday paper and get engrossed in an article, I turn the page to find someone has cut out the next bit
..Oh Sue....
I've got to try to get this down before I forget...(how Sylvia did it I'll never know..)
Eric is home and settled in the (clean and dust free )lounge with a cup of tea and the inevitable cigarette.
It's not at all what I expected...
He thinks he's been away for weeks..and that I was with him until thismorning.
He is worried about our 2 daughters..why they're not here.
He doesn't know where he's been but knows he had an "accident in the toilet" and believes a doctor came to help him..she laughed about it with him and made him feel better.
He had lovely food but can't remember what it was.
He says he went outside to look for me but someone asked him to come back inside because it was cold.
He is worried because he thinks I've been there with him and they haven't brought my things home...only his.
I've phoned the care home..I told Eric I was going to do this ..he said.."You ask them how long I've been there and they'll tell you it's been longer than a week"
OK ..CH version...
Eric settled really well. Enjoyed his food.
He did have an "accident" with his bowels thisafternoon but a carer sorted him out.
Towards evening he became increasingly concerned that I should be coming to fetch him home and wanted to get out. They let him out of the doors under supervision..and he was easily persuaded to come back in as it was so cold..and they kept him inside until the taxi came to pick him up.
Stupid me forgot to mention that Eric does seem to "sundown" from about 5 onwards these days..so I think that's what happened.
He's home but not settled. I don't know that there's much else I can do to reassure him. I've hugged him and kissed him and told him I love him and he's safe at home..but he doesn't understand.
Tea, cigarettes and Poirot on TV may have the desired effect.
I've got a ready meal in the oven, and some dirty washing to deal with...
And probably a lot more questions to face before bed-time.
Love xx