OK, so today rush in to OH's home after work to be confronted by THE SOCIAL WORKER. She had come to assess OH for DEPRIVATION OF LIBERTY. This is to be followed by psychiatrist visit for the same thing ... Come to test whether or not he has capacity (he's probably had about 8 capacity tests by now). My beloved OH is profoundly disabled, cannot answer questions, cannot express his needs, cannot stand or move. Would not know what to do with liberty if he had it. Even so, having had diabolical experiences with LA social workers, i am frightened sick of them moving OH or whatever ... It was a nice young girl whose grandfather had dementia and she could see that K had high level of needs. And I know they are following the laws of the country etc etc. What can I say? Feel none the less distressed at having to have it demonstrated how disabled Oh is. Nursing home staff so supportive to me, could see I was frightened. LA social workers diminished me so badly and I had no power to cope with them. To be fair, the Social worker when OH was in hospital was magnificent and helped me to find OH's current home.
Anyway, after they had gone, a kind of miracle. I think OH sensed I was upset, we know each other so well of course. He tried to put his arm round me, and I bent down and he kissed me and it was all worthwhile.
Fear not, dear friends, I will have calmed down by tomorrow. Thank you for being with me.
Anyway, after they had gone, a kind of miracle. I think OH sensed I was upset, we know each other so well of course. He tried to put his arm round me, and I bent down and he kissed me and it was all worthwhile.
Fear not, dear friends, I will have calmed down by tomorrow. Thank you for being with me.