How can a carer possibly do the best for their OH who is constantly looking to row?
Example, OH "tomorrow I am going shopping with my friend, I do not want you to take us in the car we will go on our own," OH is 80years old with VD and her friend is 84 and almost blind, I often think the friend has dementia, the journey means crossing 2 very high traffic routes and one is riddled with half mile road works. 10 minutes later she is offering to make me a cup of coffee, a further 5 minutes later and she is causing a fuss about the milk.
Please do not tell me I am a saint or just let her win, this is life threatening.
Thank you
Example, OH "tomorrow I am going shopping with my friend, I do not want you to take us in the car we will go on our own," OH is 80years old with VD and her friend is 84 and almost blind, I often think the friend has dementia, the journey means crossing 2 very high traffic routes and one is riddled with half mile road works. 10 minutes later she is offering to make me a cup of coffee, a further 5 minutes later and she is causing a fuss about the milk.
Please do not tell me I am a saint or just let her win, this is life threatening.
Thank you
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