Hello
My name is Maxine and my Father recently got diagnosed with Alzheimer's so I am really here to get advice and support.
My father is 82 and has been showing signs of Alzheimer's for around 12 months. He was tested in Feb 23 and we were told that he had Mild Cognitive Impairment and would be reviewed after 6 months. In this time he was taken in to hospital and stayed around 7 wks. During this time his partners of 20 years left as she said she couldn't look after him as there had been a decline in his health. I unfortunately had to inform my dad of this news but due to his decline in memory he has struggled to understand.
So on his return home he has had a major change in his personal circumstances and now lives alone.
Dad had his 6 month review and is is evident that he now has Alzheimer's. The problem I have is that he forgets about his diagnosis and he doesn't understand that he and his ex partner are no longer together, what makes it worse is that she only lives down the road. We are now finding that he is going to her house and knocking on her door which she doesn't want him to do due to him still thinking they are still together.
I have tried to reach out to her to ask her if she could just have a conversation herself with my Dad and explain how she feels and why she left in the hope that he would accept the situation but she refused.
Could anyone offer any advice on the best way to deal with his situation. Its heartbreaking having to go through the same thing and I know they recommend that you dont contradict him but my hope is that we can stop his regular visits to her house.
Thank you
My name is Maxine and my Father recently got diagnosed with Alzheimer's so I am really here to get advice and support.
My father is 82 and has been showing signs of Alzheimer's for around 12 months. He was tested in Feb 23 and we were told that he had Mild Cognitive Impairment and would be reviewed after 6 months. In this time he was taken in to hospital and stayed around 7 wks. During this time his partners of 20 years left as she said she couldn't look after him as there had been a decline in his health. I unfortunately had to inform my dad of this news but due to his decline in memory he has struggled to understand.
So on his return home he has had a major change in his personal circumstances and now lives alone.
Dad had his 6 month review and is is evident that he now has Alzheimer's. The problem I have is that he forgets about his diagnosis and he doesn't understand that he and his ex partner are no longer together, what makes it worse is that she only lives down the road. We are now finding that he is going to her house and knocking on her door which she doesn't want him to do due to him still thinking they are still together.
I have tried to reach out to her to ask her if she could just have a conversation herself with my Dad and explain how she feels and why she left in the hope that he would accept the situation but she refused.
Could anyone offer any advice on the best way to deal with his situation. Its heartbreaking having to go through the same thing and I know they recommend that you dont contradict him but my hope is that we can stop his regular visits to her house.
Thank you