Good advice. Many thanks. That is so true. He understands what he wants and that is no carers but cannot understand the consequences of that decision.
Unfortunately too he has a lock with a key code that all the professionals know.
My biggest anxiety is when I see him again I'm convinced he will go for me. He is a very aggressive man
Tony If you fear him, do not go anywhere near him.
Step right back, let the professionals deal with him entirely.
If he does get out of control, call the police, let them deal with him, just get an incident number, it helps back up your case.
As I said before, you do not have to take any responsibility for him.
He won't be aggressive with professional carers very often, before he is dealt with.
Do not worry, if you step right back, the situation will sort it's self out, one way or another.
Bod