Hi
Although I've been on this site for a while and found all the threads interesting, this is my first post so hi to everyone.
My mum has alzheimer's and cancer and I'm concerned that she doesn't shower or wash her hair.
She has carer's going in three times a day and every time they ask to help her shower she declines. When I go round she declines and can be quite abrupt about it. She comes out with what I call excuses like "I'm not feeling very well" or "I'm tired and haven't the energy" "I'll do it tomorrow".
I've read that it can be because they could be scared of water but this isn't the case. I really think she just hasn't got the energy to shower or wash her hair.
I'm concerned about her health if she isn't showering and when I give her a hug there is a smell (sorry!).
I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to persuade her to get in the shower?
Although I've been on this site for a while and found all the threads interesting, this is my first post so hi to everyone.
My mum has alzheimer's and cancer and I'm concerned that she doesn't shower or wash her hair.
She has carer's going in three times a day and every time they ask to help her shower she declines. When I go round she declines and can be quite abrupt about it. She comes out with what I call excuses like "I'm not feeling very well" or "I'm tired and haven't the energy" "I'll do it tomorrow".
I've read that it can be because they could be scared of water but this isn't the case. I really think she just hasn't got the energy to shower or wash her hair.
I'm concerned about her health if she isn't showering and when I give her a hug there is a smell (sorry!).
I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to persuade her to get in the shower?