he was very confused and was peeing over the top of his pad on to my bedrooom floor wich he has been doing for a while i had to take up the carpet anyway i shouted at john in a big way it was 4am i was tired i felt i could have hit him I DIDNOT HIT HIM.
I remember before my mother was diagnosed and living in Gibraltar she would do that and I had to take the carpet up , I had to walk out of the house after cleaning it up .
we have a cousin of my son who stayed with us for the night when mum was at respite she come over from one of the Caribbean islands st Vince’s , she 23 , she was telling me how she looks after her untie who has diabetic and is bed ridden and has to have nappies , she told my daughter that one day she was washing her down on the bed , went to get a pads came back and she had phoo all over the bed ( now don’t forget in this country she does not have washing machine they live in a shack ) she wanted to know why , she did not tell her she wanted to go to the toilet , she keep asking her that .
she said that she went out side the house and screamed her head out , no wonder my son family got the money together to sent her to England to give the girl a brake.
Made me wonder how many elderly people must have dementia out there, with out understanding what is happening to the person they care for , and that I can get respite because if I did not I could not keep looking after my mother
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