My dad who has recently been diagnosed has just been told that he can no longer drive. As he is someone who has always been proud of his ability to get around independently he has taken this very badly. Because I was the one who persuaded him to have his initial assessment (he had been referred by his GP but didn't want to go) he has taken it upon himself to blame me for his predicament. To say the least he is not best pleased with me. I'm happy to help drive him around and arrange other help for him but of course, it's not the same thing. I live 20 miles from my dad but that's not even a factor as I'm happy to help. My brother lives just around the corner from my dad, literally, their gardens almost back onto each other but cares not so much and sees having to help my dad as a chore but that's another story. Essentially, I was wondering if anyone else had been in a similar situation and how did they deal with it ? Thanks in advance.