I've been following this thread and was really hoping things would go well for you. My mum was in hospital for 6 weeks after breaking her hip. When she came home against the hospitals advice she was really sleepy all the time for the first couple of weeks and the carpet cleaner was put to good use as she did get rather explosive. Luckily this seems to have settled down now. We have good days and bad days. She sometimes has nights where she is up and down, banging on the windows and trying to escape she's gone three days before with no sleep no idea where she gets the energy from. This is usually followed by a few days sleep. Probably no help to you but we sing with my mum surprisingly she knows more of the words than we do and this sometimes calms her down. I also don't care what she eats as long as I can get something down her healthy meals have gone out the window. I do hope that you can get some help we have carers four times a day and three of us working together to try to keep her safe. I know that my mum would be safer in a care home but it is a huge decision to make. We have another CHC assessment and care assessment at the end of the month and will make a decision after that.