I once heard someone say: "If this is love, I'd rather be hated, it's more honest!" That's not a nice statement. I forget what caused it, as it was said too many years ago, now. Obviously, someone had upset someone else who were meant to be in a close relationship, but I got like that too, in later years.
You wouldn't cope well with constant nastiness, optocarol. I know I didn't. It's just not good for anyone. Hope that by now, you're getting the better of that cold and things are looking better, with you more able to cope.
Your hubby is obviously trying to help where he can. This blasted disease puts paid to that. You know he doesn't mean the bad things. You know he doesn't.
Love n hugs coming your way, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx