Hi everyone! I am looking for a bit of reassurance or assistance or maybe just a rant!
So up until now I have tried not to interfere with dads shopping habits. We occasionally take him or pick up his heavy stuff, its has been so important for him to keep the independence of wandering the supermarket aisles, up and down as much as he likes! I have the Life 360 app on his phone so I know he can spend 2 hours in our local supermarket.
The last few days he hasn't been feeling his best and he mentioned needing some bits so I said I would take him. I was patient, I gave him ideas, I was doing really well, until I got him home........
I unpacked his shopping for him and he now has three loaves of bread, 35 cup cakes, 7 bags of mints...........I could go on, but I'm probably already boring you.
I really think now I have to make a strict list with him and only let him shop from that. My worry is that he won't ask me and then ends up with even more food that we have to throw out (I have to clear his fridge every fortnight).
He also tells fibs about the amount he is eating and drinking and obviously I can tell by the amount of stuff I am throwing away.
So is there a good way to get him to stick to a list, because at the moment a family of 4 could live off all that for a week!
Thank you
Joanne x
So up until now I have tried not to interfere with dads shopping habits. We occasionally take him or pick up his heavy stuff, its has been so important for him to keep the independence of wandering the supermarket aisles, up and down as much as he likes! I have the Life 360 app on his phone so I know he can spend 2 hours in our local supermarket.
The last few days he hasn't been feeling his best and he mentioned needing some bits so I said I would take him. I was patient, I gave him ideas, I was doing really well, until I got him home........
I unpacked his shopping for him and he now has three loaves of bread, 35 cup cakes, 7 bags of mints...........I could go on, but I'm probably already boring you.
I really think now I have to make a strict list with him and only let him shop from that. My worry is that he won't ask me and then ends up with even more food that we have to throw out (I have to clear his fridge every fortnight).
He also tells fibs about the amount he is eating and drinking and obviously I can tell by the amount of stuff I am throwing away.
So is there a good way to get him to stick to a list, because at the moment a family of 4 could live off all that for a week!
Thank you
Joanne x